Response to Anonymous.
Hi Anonymous
Your quite right the accusations and tone
are “appalling” the actions by the
council which brought this blog about are also “appalling” none of this would be taking place if the council had
not treated residents including myself with such an appallingly dismissive
attitude, attacked a resident during a council meeting then got together to lie
about the incident, making the resident out to be the liar, or waste so much of
our money, I could go on but that might be seem as “ranting”, heaven forbid!!
I see we’re back on the old “vendetta” treadmill, a favorite with the
council when trying to discredit me and deflect attention from themselves. It
saves them having to answer any questions, all the accusations are a matter of
record so before you tell me I’m wrong to fight an injustice go and ask the
council why they did those things in the first place!
Again your right, this whole thing
tarnishes the entire council, brings the council into disrepute puts the
village in a poor light, I accept all of that is unfair and unjust and probably
uncalled for, I have tried to distinguish between what I see as new councillors
and the old guard who are the problem and always have been. Let the few councillors who engineered this mayhem show some honour and consideration for their colleagues who are being tarnished with their wrongdoings, let them stand and show some willingness to put this in the past and accept they have not being perfect examples to the village!
A few councillors brought the council into
disrepute when they gave false statements to the Standards Committee, that's about as appalling as you can get, I didn’t
do that! Nor have I said its proven, my position has always been for an independent investigation to establish the truth, read the e-petition on the Government website.
You suggest I should resolve my differences
with the council in a private manner. I have requested to meet with the council
probably a dozen times over the last 3 years to resolve our differences, I was happy to get a simple
assurance that such an attack by a councillor during a council meeting would
not be repeated. This whole thing could have been put to bed over 2 years ago
with 4 simple words from the council “that
won’t happen again” instead they voted not to speak to me and brushed me
aside as though I am some worthless idiot who is not worth the time of day, my
trying to resolve issues directly with the council have ended I no longer have
contact with the council.
The relationship between myself and the
Parish Council has unfortunately always been an acrimonious one, there are
faults on both sides so neither of us can claim any moral high ground and it will
never be resolved until the parties decide to talk and settle their
differences. For my part I have tried to settle any differences many times
while the council have been intransigent in their position of dismissing me out
of hand, that’s hardly my fault I don’t control the council! I have also been
to ERYC and complained about councillors submitting false statement’s, they
simply refused to look at it.
I find it strange that while I am willing
to accept fault on my part as well as the council being at fault, your opinion
would seem to be that everything is down to me and I’m just having a go at a
wonderfully efficient, caring council that takes care of residents every need
and are a wonderful asset to the village. Nothing in my opinion could be
further from the truth, you have a very one sided argument which in itself
discredits it.
Thank you for reading and for your comment.
IF you reread my comment I hope you will note I was not suggesting it is all down to you, I was in fact saying there are ways and means of dealing with the type of situation you describe.
ReplyDeleteI note in your very full response you mention ERYC refused to look at it, they can not do that. They have an obligtion to investigate all complaints.
Throughout your response you seem to be accepting resposiblity for your part in what seems to be a long running debacle and acknowledge that your issue isn't with the entire PC. However your views and attempts at objectivity, and this appears to be a pattern, are spoiled with the tone of your last paragraph where again you refer to the whole and clearly have no desire to deal with your concerns in the proper manner.
I was trying in my clumsy fashion to be conciliatory and accepting that there has been fault on both sides, we may be able to move forward from that point if both parties are like minded.
DeleteYou clearly do not understand the steps I have taken previously, either that or your choosing to ignore them. I am quite happy to defer to your better experience and would ask you to detail how I should deal with it.
Thank you for your comment